How Cats Say “I Love You”
Cats show affection in quiet ways. Here are six signs your cat feels safe, happy and attached to you.
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- The slow blink
- A slow close and open of the eyes is a sign of trust. Try slow blinking back.
- Tail straight up
- A tail held high as they come to greet you means they are happy to see you.
- Head bonks
- Pressing their head against you spreads their scent and says you are one of the family.
- Kneading
- Pushing with the paws is a kitten habit linked to comfort and milk. Adults do it when they feel safe.
- Following you around
- Wanting to be where you are is a good sign they feel safe and attached.
- Showing their belly
- Rolling over can mean deep trust. It is not always an invitation to rub, so let them tell you.
Questions people ask
How do I know if my cat loves me?
Common signs include slow blinking, a tail held high, head bonks, kneading, following you from room to room and relaxing around you.
Why does my cat slow blink at me?
A slow blink is often seen as a sign of trust and affection. You can slow blink back.
Does my cat love me if they do not sit on my lap?
Yes, plenty of cats show affection in other ways, such as sitting nearby or following you.
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