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Friendliest Cat Breeds

If you want a cat who loves people, these breeds are known for being sociable and affectionate. Individual cats vary, and early handling matters a great deal.

  1. Cartoon of a Ragdoll cat

    1. Ragdoll

    Calm, trusting and happy to be held.

    Large · Usually 12 to 15 years

    Read the Ragdoll guide →
  2. Cartoon of a Birman cat

    2. Birman

    Gentle, sociable and good with children.

    Medium to large · Usually 12 to 16 years

    Read the Birman guide →
  3. Cartoon of a Maine Coon cat

    3. Maine Coon

    Friendly, patient and sociable.

    Large · Usually 12 to 15 years

    Read the Maine Coon guide →
  4. Cartoon of a Burmese cat

    4. Burmese

    Clingy, playful and people-focused.

    Medium · Often 12 to 16 years

    Read the Burmese guide →
  5. Cartoon of a Tonkinese cat

    5. Tonkinese

    Sociable, playful and chatty.

    Medium · Often 12 to 16 years

    Read the Tonkinese guide →
  6. Cartoon of a Siberian cat

    6. Siberian

    Friendly, playful and dog-like.

    Medium to large · Often 11 to 15 years

    Read the Siberian guide →
  7. Cartoon of a Selkirk Rex cat

    7. Selkirk Rex

    Patient and cuddly.

    Medium to large · Often 12 to 15 years

    Read the Selkirk Rex guide →
  8. Cartoon of a Abyssinian cat

    8. Abyssinian

    Busy and sociable, though rarely a lap cat.

    Medium, slim · Usually 12 to 15 years

    Read the Abyssinian guide →

Breed is only part of the story: every cat is an individual, and most cats in the UK are moggies. Meet the cat before you decide, and think about rescue cats too. This is a friendly overview, not veterinary advice.

Questions people ask

What is the friendliest cat breed?

The Ragdoll, Birman and Maine Coon are often described as the friendliest, but every cat is an individual.

Does breed decide how friendly a cat is?

Only partly. Early handling, upbringing and each cat’s own character matter just as much.