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Best Cat Breeds for Families

A good family cat is patient, sociable and tolerant of noise. These breeds have a reputation for being good with children, though how children treat the cat matters just as much as the breed.

  1. Cartoon of a Maine Coon cat

    1. Maine Coon

    Patient, friendly and playful.

    Large · Usually 12 to 15 years

    Read the Maine Coon guide →
  2. Cartoon of a Ragdoll cat

    2. Ragdoll

    Gentle and relaxed.

    Large · Usually 12 to 15 years

    Read the Ragdoll guide →
  3. Cartoon of a Birman cat

    3. Birman

    Sweet and sociable.

    Medium to large · Usually 12 to 16 years

    Read the Birman guide →
  4. Cartoon of a Siberian cat

    4. Siberian

    Playful, sturdy and dog-like.

    Medium to large · Often 11 to 15 years

    Read the Siberian guide →
  5. Cartoon of a Abyssinian cat

    5. Abyssinian

    Busy and fun, best with older children.

    Medium, slim · Usually 12 to 15 years

    Read the Abyssinian guide →
  6. Cartoon of a British Shorthair cat

    6. British Shorthair

    Calm and tolerant, though many dislike being carried.

    Medium to large · Usually 12 to 17 years

    Read the British Shorthair guide →
  7. Cartoon of a Selkirk Rex cat

    7. Selkirk Rex

    Patient and cuddly.

    Medium to large · Often 12 to 15 years

    Read the Selkirk Rex guide →
  8. Cartoon of a Domestic Shorthair (the moggy) cat

    8. Domestic Shorthair (the moggy)

    A well-socialised moggy is an excellent family cat.

    Small to large · Often 12 to 18 years

    Read the Domestic Shorthair (the moggy) guide →

Breed is only part of the story: every cat is an individual, and most cats in the UK are moggies. Meet the cat before you decide, and think about rescue cats too. This is a friendly overview, not veterinary advice.

Questions people ask

What is the best cat for a family with young children?

A calm, patient cat who has been well socialised with children. Many Ragdolls, Birmans and Maine Coons fit, as do moggies from good homes.

How should children behave around cats?

Gently, quietly and without chasing or picking up. Teach them to let the cat come to them and to leave it alone when it is eating, sleeping or hiding.